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What do I do? Forgive and forget or just forget??

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Question - (8 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ove forever writes:

About a month ago,a guy I was dating but "unofficial" went to China on vacation with a group of kids our age.I told him not to have intercourse with anyone and we both knew I wasn't kidding.

So as its obvious,he goes and was drunk but he knew what he was doing,had sex with this girl. Apparently, this girl is better looking than me since thats why they did it and he even told me that.

I ignore him now.He doesn't see him doing this a big deal.I do but may move on with a new guy who asked me out. what to do?

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A female reader, love forever United States +, writes (8 August 2010):

love forever is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you everyone!!!

And I know now not to date guys like that guy! Thank you!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010):

so far you are doing the right thing. you act really classy and behave very elegantly. an applaud from me to you..

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A male reader, xnickx United States +, writes (8 August 2010):

xnickx agony auntagree with q/e but would also just like to point out the fact that he told you she was prettier that you, and thats why he had sex with her.

You were unofficial, but still, that shows tremendous disrespect to you on his part. If you forgive and forget, you can probably look forward to more of this behavior to continue in the future. After all, he doesnt see what he's doing wrong, so he'll keep doing it.

Move on to this guy whose actually worth your time

Nick.

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