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writes:I happily married to an identical twin and we have children. His twin brother who is also married with children came on to me the other night (not the first time, it has happened about 5 times before). What I don't understand is why he is always hitting on me and why he would say how much he would love to start a relationship with me. His wife knows so does my husband. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): seems like OP, you are playing with fire. and my darling you will get burnt. and you know it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
On his part, I think he is jealous. His own marriage seems to be unhappy, while yours is happy. (I hope). Whatever happens, you must not make a move on this man. He is not a good guy, and may be doing this merely to destroy your marriage so he and his brother are on a level playing field. You can't help him, you just need to keep tell =ing your husband. Don't be alone wth him at all if you're interested. That's a case of you have the nice twin, whereas you see this other twin as the 'bad boy' who seems all the more interesting. Remember what you stand to lose. A good husband. He'll leave you, he'll never speak to his brother again and you'll be alone, because his brother won't stay with you. Stick to your guns.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnearly 5 years. Its not that I want to get back at him, its just I am very attracted to his brother in many ways. His brother has cheated on his wife before and almost left her. I believe that he is truly unhappy and I just want to help him....what to do? I really appreciate the advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat if I am a little interested?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
Tell him clearly that you are not one bit interested at all. If he continues, each time he says anything, tell your husband. And never be alone with him either.
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