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writes:Guys confuse me. And i dont know what they want. So i would like your opinions on what attracts a guy to a girl, what they look for in a girl, and how to keep them happy. Give me your answers pleasee. Reply to this Question
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (18 August 2010):
A big, big part of it is looks, to be honest with you. Not so much dressed-up and made-up looks, but natural beauty. The kind of thing you can't fake, but can improve upon with good diet, exercise, and hygiene.
We want women who are cheerful, confident, and kind. Whose friends value her highly. Who has real opinions about things.
Also, we want women who make us feel good about ourselves. Who like us for who we are, who like us for how we look, and who are not shy about saying so. We want to think that there's something unique and special about us that you have never found in another man. On the other hand, we do not want creepy levels of devotion or obsession.
A secure man wants time to be by himself or with his friends--separate from you. He wants you to be okay with that and encouraging of it. Watch out for men who want to be with you all the time. They probably have issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): It all depends on the guy. To us, women are like alcoholic drinks...they are all intoxicating, but we have our preferences that we tend to stick to.
What attracts a guy to a girl? Physical appearance. Now on a purely shallow level, almost EVERY guy tends to be attracted to women with the hour-glass shape. But preferences play a role - some guys are breast-men, others are ass-men, others are leg-men, and some are even lip-men. It all depends.
What do guys look for in a girl? Again, its up to the guy. But to generalize, most of us want someone with a degree of balance - feminine, but not too girly-girly; independent, but not too "one-wolf-pack" mentality; dependent, but not too clingy; kind and caring, but not a pushover; intelligent, but not too conceited; sexual, but not side-walk sally.
How to make a guy happy? Make him feel important - show him that you want to be with him because nothing makes someone feel important than being wanted.
The best you thing you can do is be YOU and hope someone is looking for the physical, mental and emotional traits that you possess.
Hope this helps!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Something I always tell my friends, both guys and girls. You have to stop looking at each gender as if all of them have the exact same tastes! Every single human on the planet, all 6 Billion people on the planet have different tastes. Most of them are similar, some people common tastes but no one is exactly the same.
With that said, personally, I like confident girls. That's really attractive in a woman but be careful, there's a difference between being confident and being cocky and vain.
I like girls who aren't snobby and think they're all that matter in the world. I've seen a lot of them where I work and it really annoys me.
I don't know if this makes me sound kind of strange but I like girls who know how to be sexy, not sleazy. You could throw a butt-naked hot woman at me and I wouldn't be turned on if she doesn't know how to be sexy but I know guys who think otherwise.
I like a girl who's caring. Not just about me though, I like girls who have a more sensitive side, the kind that knows she's capable of helping people. (Probably why Angelina Jolie appeals to me :) )
Those are just some of the things that appeal to me, but if you're lucky and you meet the right guy. You will ALREADY be what he wants in a girl and you can just be yourself!
I Hope that helps.
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