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How do I deal with the loneliness?

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Question - (18 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm so loney right now.my boyfriend is so farway from me.it's so hard leaving him we been through so much and everynight all i do is cry no friends and no one i can talk to,what can i do to make the pain go away?

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

dirtball agony auntQuit dwelling on it. Go do something fun. Go to an amusement park, or go hit the pool. Maybe go to a movie.

The more you think about it, the worse you'll get. Quit feeling sorry for yourself. Learn how to deal with this pain, because it is likely one that you'll feel again at some point in your life.

It may seem like the end of the world right now, but I guarantee you that it isn't.

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A female reader, Fefi Venezuela +, writes (18 August 2010):

Fefi agony aunthi, i am currently in the same situation :'(

i dont know when you're certain of seeing him again, but if it is soon, then just dont worry, be excited and probably even buy a gift/card for his arrival, dont mourn over it.

if you're not seeing him so soon (like me), then just try and keep urself busy, do homework or house chores or go out with mates more often, because staying around doing nothing will only bring it into your memory..

one thing i just realised, when you say leaving him, do u mean splitting up or just temporary distance?

if thats the case, you'll just have to put it aside you and find someone else, he will soon fade away after that.

also, why dont you have friends? there is always someone to talk to, your parents or trustworthy cousins, you'll find someone, i pray for your benefits

tell me how things go ;)

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