A
female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: What do guys expect on the first couple of dates? and how long should you wait before doing anything? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, starismine1 +, writes (27 August 2008):
the first date is the time you find out how open to commitment and what relationship goals the guy has, and how emotionally available he is capable of being. That means not focusing on sex or how much he is attracted to you, but focusing on how much you like his personality, how much he shows an interest in getting to know you, whether you feel any physical attraction to him and then his relationship past, where he lives, his financial state (is he able to support himself, does he rent or own a home and where) and what kind of friends he has (any couple friends) and how he feels about his mother. Yes, all this on the first date.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): It depends on the guy as to what they will expect. But what you should be concerned about is how far you want to go, not what they expect. Why should their demands impact what you do with their body? Any guy that stops seeing you because you didn't go as far as he wanted is a loser (and truth be told, once you put out for those guys they'll probably lose interest anyway)
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