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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend is thinking of fingering me for the first time.and i was just wondering, what do they expect it to `look like` down there?...like will it be abnormal if my pubic hair is shaven etc?please help.xxx
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reader, Deema +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Well, 'they' are all different. Just like us, theres no two boys the same. Some like girls to shave, some don't. Some like thin girls, some like fat girls. Some like blonds, some don't - you get me? So don't worry about what HE expects - he doesn't even know what he expects - and why should he expect anything of you. Its his privilege to have the right to do that to you, not yours. So be who you are. If YOU want to do anything different, do it, but don't do anything under pressure, or it won't stop there. If its against what you want, don't do it. Its that simple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): He's just going to be happy to finally see it. He's probably been fantasizing about it, guessing what it looks like, feels like, etc. He's probably also been fantasizing about seducing you and that you won't be able to stop because he is so desirable that you won't be able to resist him........be firm with your boundaries!
BTW, if everyone looked the same down there, he wouldn't be curious to see it, it is the uniqueness of each individual that sparks that curiousity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): Yes, it would be abnormal if there was no hair down there. Anyway, unless he's got eyes on the end of his fingers he's not going to see it unless he gets up close and personal.
Personally, I prefer the 'Bearded Clam' to the 'Beefburger' - nicely trimmed, but definitely not completely bald, and all 'clocksprings' that might otherwise escape through the leg of the knickers removed.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Most people shave their pubic hair off so you're no different
I don't think he'll expect it to look like anything as he's never seen it before but don't worry all 'areas' are different but they're all completely normal
If you're worried about this then do it under the covers or with lights off for your first time until you feel more comfortable
Good luck
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