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51-59,
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writes:We were good friends for a long time. then we got involved. We still hang out from time to time. I think he might be seeing someone now, though he's only seeing random people and no girlfriend that I can think or know of. he says he wants to go do things but when we do it's weird. He's so attentive to everything as far as compliments, brushing my face with his hand etc. We hold hands and snuggle and tells me he loves. But I think it's weird. When we are together all he wants to do is hold hands and be close to me but we don't really talk very much. I try to talk but he seems very disinterested in conversation. One of us starts to feel uncomfortable and break away after a while. he'll say i'm going to get a drink at the bar or get something out of my car or whatever. Anybody have a clue about this? also, it seems like there is some sexual tension but when I kinda say something sexy it seems he doesn't want to talk about that either. It's kinda like he doesn't feel he is very interesting outside of his high profile job which he doesn't talk about but is very successful. But he takes pride in it still the same. I was and still in love with him. He tells I'm his heart and how I'll always be a part of him. when important things come up in his life he always wants e to come and meet important business associates etc. But this is frustrating because he seems like he so nervous. Reply to this Question
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Anybody have a clue about this? also, it seems like there is some sexual tension but when I kinda say something sexy it seems he doesn't want to talk about that either.
Your man is practicing some self control because some deep problems that he fears one thing will lead to another. There are many things I could list down but then again it would be speculations. No doubt about it, he likes your company but fears some other things. Maybe:
1. Marraige. Most men dread it.
2. He is seeing someone else
3. He contracted an STD and needs to deal with it first
4. Financial problems
5. Lost his libido, Viagra will do the trick
6. He is gay
7. He is aware of your age and might be difficult to have children with you
These are mere speculations and nothing more. Maybe the best answer will come from him, eventually.
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reader, EmRaIrKiAe +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Maybe he is nervous about being with you. My bf is kinda the nerdy type and i am his first gf so he isn't very sure on what to do. So i took charge i asked him to hang out all the time and when i felt the time was right i kissed him first. After that he felt way more comfortable with me and not so awkward.He's prolly thinking about how to go about things because all he knows is comfortable for the both of you is cuddling and even that gets awkward so make sure he knows how your feeling.
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