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writes:Right, I'm in high school. I'm a thirteen year old, and almost eight months ago I started going out with this guy who I really liked. We got on well, but after a couple of months he broke up with me, and was very honest, and told me it was because he fancied my best friend. I was devestated, and a bit mean to him, but recently we have become friends again.He goes on my bus, and we can talk like none of the rubbish ever happened. The problem is, I started liking him again. You know, LIKING him. It started because we were talking on MSN, and he complimented me. I know it sounds silly, but it made a whole lot of differnce, like he actually noticed me. After this we started talking because h started catching my bus (because his dad got a new job and can't drive him any more).He usually misses the bus, as he catches up with friends at the end of the day, but every day I look forward to that bus journey a lot. It's all I can think about. But I can't work out if he fancies me.He talks to me, and there aren't awkward silences - the conversation flows. If it goes silent, one of us says something or does something. When I'm around, he seems to laugh a bit louder, but I don't really know, because I don't know how he is when I'm not there. He's not really a one to give signs when he likes you, though. Last time he acted pretty similar to the way he does now.He teases me and makes jokes - today he tried to steal my cookie, and wouldn't stop. He was joking and making fun of me, but not in a nasty way. He doesn't really say anything sexual, and he doesn't really touch me, but it's not like he desn't want to touch me. He doesn't stay away from me, and makes a reasonable amount of effort to talk to me, but not too over the top.I don't know what to do, and can't figure out whether he likes me or not. I mean, I'm not against the idea of telling him I like him - I don't think it's a bad idea. I just wanted some advice from someone who doesn't know either of us, see what they think. I'd like to know whether you think he fancies me, and what you think I should do. Thank you for your time :) I'll be really grateful to all responses.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (6 March 2009):
 It sounds like he is just being friendly. And you could do better than a guy who told you that he likes your best friend!! Hang in there, there's always someone round the corner waiting for the right moment to tell you they like you! X
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