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What can I do to prove to her that I won't hurt her if she gives me a second chance?

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Question - (11 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So me and my girlfriend have been broken up for about 2 months now. We've gotten closer within the last couple weeks. We started to hold hands and kiss again. Some days she's very "lovey" with me. Some days she doesn't show any sign of affection towards me. So we talked about it one day, and she said that she is confused, and afraid to go back out with me. She says she knows that I changed, and that things would be good if we went out again. But she's afraid. She also said that her guards are up. What can I do to prove to her that I won't hurt her if she gives me a second chance?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010):

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Wow, I never thought of this as a second chance. I'm an idiot, lol. My mind is filled with raw emotion. Thank you for opening my eyes!! I appreciate it!

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2010):

kayla20 agony aunttrust is a hard thing to regain you have to be patient with her and not rush her into a relationship take things slowly

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2010):

Kenj agony auntThere is nothing you can do to instantly fix this, its going to take time for you to prove to her that she can trust you again.

Youve been given a second chance, if you truly love her dont screw it up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010):

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Update: I forgot to mention that she is not seeing anyone else. She says she doesn't feel comfortable seeing another guy or even being in relationship with someone else.

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