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writes:How do I get physical with a friend who is a girl? I think she doesn't mind. But when we are alone I would like to touch her more than usual. How can or what can I do to make sure she is happy and comfortable? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (6 November 2008):
Its great that you care but i think you need to talk to her about it first. You will know shes comfortable when she tells you.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 November 2008):
 How sweet!! You are a keeper, and she is lucky to be with someone who clearly cares so much about her well being. You seem to respect her and that's great. She probably won't have much of a problem getting comfortable with you if you are this considerate with her.
Take things slow, maybe sure you ask before you do things and back off if she tenses up in the least. You want her to enjoy every second and never feel uneasy about going too far. Pretty much exactly what "babewithbrains" said... great advice from her.
Talk to her and apply no pressure!
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (6 November 2008):
 Ask her, be embarrassed! It doesn't matter, if you care this much (and I think this is really cute by the way) she'll be fine, go slow, you know, kissing and cuddling to begin with, but dont push her, if she says stop, stop. Its simple ennough.
Have fun,
Jelly
xxx
Be careful, shes obviously worth a lot to you.
:D:D:D
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