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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for the past month and everything's been fine apart from one big problem, he hasn't cum and I told him I had but in fact I hadn't. I dunno what to do cos he's getting really worried about him not cumming and saying it might get in the way of the relationship, I really like him and I don't want him to feel bad and end up screwing up our relationship. What can I do to make him more relaxed and comfortable about sex??Please help im desperate!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (17 August 2007):
well do some thing fun and sexy together but also try having sex in the dark and telling him how good he feels and moan for him if you want to what i am saying is that maybe if he doesnt think hes doing it wrong than he'll be okay that or try oral sex on him to relax him
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (17 August 2007):
How is he doing it? Fast? Slow? Different positions? Can he keep an erection?
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female
reader, katypnuts +, writes (17 August 2007):
talking to each other is the best thing to do no matter how embarrasing it may be,just ask each other what turns you both on and then do them to each other but if somethng feels good tell him or if it doesnt feel right tell him you didnt like it and the same for him.
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