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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years but when he goes out without me, I worry that he will meet someone else. I know that he wouldn't do anything but I just can't relax. Recently he has made excuses to go out with other people instead of me!! What can I do to help myself relax??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (12 July 2007):
You are letting your trust of him break. In not trusting him when he goes out you are letting fear seep in and now you are being eaten up if he is meeting someone new.
Take an opportunity with him to evaluate your relationship. Ask where it is going and if you both still love each other. If he says yes, he is still into you and you shouldnt worry THEN DONT. Tale it for face value. If he says that he wants to see other people then let him go. It is better to know the truth than to be suspicious for months on end and living in fear.
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