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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi,my partner and i have just broken up after 2 years. we were living together and ive had to move out with some of the pets. my ex broke it off because of a misunderstanding between me and his boss. ive explained and apologised to him but he doesnt want to know. we had problems a few months before and hes told me on serpate occasions that he doesnt love me and want to be with me, aparently he didnt mean them. ive tried over the last few weeks to help him out with the house. stayed over for a few weeks, slept with him. it felt like we were together again. I left on christmas day and we havent spoken much since. the last thing he said was that he didnt love me and care even though in the last few weeks things seemed great and i helped him out so much. now hes on facebook talking to single girlsi think he still does have feelings for me as he still wants to talk to me for hours most nights. ive made it clear i cant be his friend and that its all or nothing. what can i do to get him back and mend all this? our realtionship was great up untill 4 months agothanks
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reader, camper12 +, writes (31 December 2009):
i really feel for you, especially at this time of year and everuone seems to together and happy
stop torturing yourself with facebook, dont do it to yourself
dont answer you phone to him next time, just be strong. dont text him or go round, let him wonder where you are
this way you will get back some of the control, sox at the moment he has all the control. just set yourself a target of say a week of not talking to him. htats what i am trying to do - read my story!!
it sounds to me like he doesnt know what he wants, let him miss you and come to YOU. think how good you will feel if he starts chasing you. if you carry on like you are, you will end up low and depressed and feeling bad about yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 December 2009):
I think he was waiting for a time to dump you, and has done it now after having used you as well. Let him go now. You don't' want a guy like this back. He used you, then dumped you and has said he doesn't love you or care about you. Don't waste your time on a man who won't care. Find a man who will.
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