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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi,I'm having a problem with my boyfriend.I am nearly 26 and this is the first time to fall in love, we are having some problems the first and important one is in the way we think, all he thinks of is sex and I don't think of it that much. He lived 15 years of his life getting what he wanted from girls I mean he had sex for 15 years he is 30 years old now,he didn't rethink of marriage till he saw me I didn't actually like him at the beginning as he isn't my type but he told me he wants change and I decided to give him a chance and stand by him, what I like about him is that he told me the truth and I appreciated that but everytime he gets near me I feel he thinking about sex, all he is thinking of is sex. I think he never knew love. I want to kiss him without feeling that he wants sex I don't know how to make him stop thinking this way,maybe I made it easy for him th think of sex with me. I want him to feel me, to see me. I forgot to tell you that he stopped having sex for 2 years the second problem he loves girls so much and he loves being wanted and to feel that all girls are dying for him, he loves flittering with other girls infront of meThe problem is that I love him so much now and want him to change, I don't want him to get what he wants from me somethimes I believe him when he tells me that he loves me sometimes I don't. whenever a girl flittering with him I feel so jealous and sometimes both of them go so far that I get angry and mad at him.so many of his acts and that sex thinking are spoiling good moments, cause everytime there a new story of girl trying to get him. I don't know how to deal with him, he doesn't like to put him infront of his mistakes and I can't ignore what he tells me about girls are crazy for him I love him so much and he is the first one to touch my hand and kiss me I feel so attached to him I am relieved to the touch of his hand. I really want him to change I do want to lose him as these things are keeping me away from him
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 You cannot change a man.
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reader, pril +, writes (29 December 2009):
Ok I hate to tell u that is all men think about. My husband always is thinking about it. I can't walk by him with out him grabing some part of my body. That's a man for u. But ur man flirrting with other women in front of u could be one of two things. He is trying to make u jelous. Men think if there girl sees them flirting with another girl then they will do what ever it takes to make them happy (sex). Or it could be he is a male slut. He may cheat on u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Just tell him no more sex until you are married. But I would beware. It sounds like he completely lost his ability to be intimate by being promiscuous for so long. He'll probably just cheat on you. Some guys are slutty. But anyway, good luck.
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