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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:this is kinda akward but.. well me and my girlfriend have been together a while and she recently "ran me to second base" and when i felt her breast she said it hurt, i wasnt being rough i was gentle, im worried that something may be wrong with.. them or me or something, any advice on if she's ok or what i can do to get better?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 December 2008):
 Good thought that she may be on her period, or nearing it. My breasts get SUPER tender and I don't like them being touched - heck, they can hardly handle the bra!
Still, be even MORE gentle with them. Don't grab them in handfuls, stroke them with your fingers rather than the whole palm. Put her hand on top of yours and have her guide you as to what she likes.
Keep everything niiiiice and slow, because also as the previous poster pointed out, she might just not be ready and this is her excuse. If you try again and she's still uncomfortable or tense, you need to back away from second base and have a little more fun on first.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): Firstly, pehaps she was on her period? A lot of women get more tender breasts around the time of their period.
If not, perhaps next time start of with gentle strokes with your fingertips rather than a squeezing or rubbing motion. You can build it up gradually and see what kind of pressure and motion she likes. Keep in mind as well that teenage guys often don't realise the strength they have (especially when turned on) and what may seem gentle to you could actually be too hard/rough for her.
One other question is whether she was ready for this? Perhaps she said it hurt to get you to stop...
If this happens again and you are definitely not being too rough, it is probably something you need to talk to her about. If she is not ready, please have some respect for her and wait until she is.
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