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writes:Im 45 and single..Lately when I go any place I get approached by men of all ages (youngest 25) and I been told all kinds of lines to get me to go with them to have sex. Lines like "you are beautiful and seductive"" Tonight you are mine" " I saw your smile and I must get to know you" and so on..I dont go out looking to be picked up and I just want one drink and relax with my friends after work and chat. Sometimes it can get ridiculous I laugh at this but lately I been asked if I know where my spot is and if I I dont know they want to try to find it and make me squirt...I say usually that Im not interested. Keeps on happening and I dont know how to stop it..Even my daughters friends dad said he had a thing for me...I dress with no style, use no make-up and I dont usually flirt unless I have an interest in a specific person. Im very plain and Im even over weight! Sometimes I dont even want to go anywhere. Whats going on? Any Ideas?..maybe Im doing something unconsiously? I never had this happen before ..funny thing it doesnt matter where it happens since I go to different places in different towns and I am not a regular at any of the restaurants or bars..Do things like these happen to anyone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): Uncle Phil I am committing this line into memory.Ha Ha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): If you need a put-down, how about this one:
"I've already got one asshole in my knickers - why would I want another?".
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 I'm sure all women who go to bars on a regular basis get hit on. I would say that most times when a strange man approaches a woman in a bar he's at least somewhat interested. Otherwise, there is not much reason to approach perfect strangers. What happens after that is more important. If you are not interested and he understands that, it is OK to continue to communicate. Of course it is important that you make yourself clear. This doesn't mean e's no longer interested, it just means he's been warned. If he's a gentleman, he'll act as such. IF your dealing with guys who are offering to find your g spot so you can squirt. Move on
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reader, MetalMan  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 i'd agree with Ginalolabridga but maybe your self image isn't what guys see for example you may think your over weight but guys probably dont think you are. your going to have to face that your probably very attractive and being attractive has nothing to do with looking like a model or something. if you dont want the attention my advice'd be to completely ignore any subtle moves guys make (it takes two to tango so if they get any responce they'll probably leave you alone) and for any moer determined guys tell them flat out that your not intersted, you could even have some fun with it and come up with some witty put downs if your that way inclined.
hope i can help, good luck!
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