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writes:~I KNOW I'LL NEVER LOVE THIS WAY AGAIN~Tonight I am very emotional..the most emotional I have ever been.My ex contacted after dumping me nearly 4 months ago.Our breakup was sinful. We both said things to one another that contradicted love. I have grown much from our time apart..and..I had also come to realize that I was as much at fault as she for the cause of the breakup.I didn't want to confront and accept my part. It was easier for me to deny it and point the finger at her. It was also a way for me to try to fool myself into believing that I was no longer in love with her.All that it took was her written touch, The Only Touch I've Ever Longed For From A Woman, The Touch Of The First And Only Woman Whom I've Ever Loved And Remain In Love With, To Make My Heart Beat Again.I am in Love with her, and If she does not feel the same for me I don't want that to run from me or feel that she needs to try to fall in love with me. I want her heart to be in love even if not with me. I admire her, I grow with her. Her friendship brings out the best in me.Does anyone understand this kind of love? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): ~HI~
I am the poster of this question.
Thank You kindly for all of your responses.
I will reply to all questions posed, however I will have to do so later as ever since my ex contacted me last night I have been an emotional disaster and physically ill and weak to the point where I haven't been able to eat or even get out of bed and it's like I'm just in a haze where I am soo lost and there's just nothing. I am so withdrawn and just a mess. She told me that she's moving to another state this Friday. I am so broken down and lost and on top of that...
I need to be alone for a week or two...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): You haven't mentioned anything about what she said in her letter. Has she mentioned wanting to reconcile, or was it a "how are you? sorry for all the bad things I said/did etc." (i.e. "I'm writing this to apologise and get closure") letter?I sincerely hope for your sake that it's an olive branch, and I believe that you probably do love this woman very much. My ex (my truest love) dumped me about 6 weeks ago, and part of me would be OVERJOYED if she got back in touch, as yours has done, so I know exactly how you feel.But... be careful. Unless it's clear that she still loves you and wants another go, try not to get your hopes up too much in case your heart gets broken again. Also, don't let your heart rule your actions too much, and try to step back and consider what went wrong between you in the first place. Would it happen again down the line? Do you REALLY want to get back with someone who broke up with you?Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): I understand everything as this is exactly how im feeling an happy that someone else feels this and i know now im not alone or mad
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