A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I want to do something really awesome for my boyfriend but can't think what. We've had a rough 6 months or so and I feel like celebrating the fact that we're finally getting back to the couple we used to be (if not better!).I'm on a tight budget and work on week days, as does he. I considered a meal or a picnic but it just doesn't seem special enough. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): Sex.
A
male
reader, mulattoman  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Go down on him, don't stop til he cums, swallow it.
That's what you can do and it doesn't cost a thing. You might think I'm joking or being "immature" but it's the truth. Most men are NOT materialistic like women and need to be showerd with gifts.
Men need to be showered with devoted sexuality and undivided attention. After you're done you offer him a beer, watch one of his favorite movies, and keep your mouth closed until it's over.
Then you can talk to him about your feelings and how to improve your relationship WITHOUT nagging and WITHOUT playing the blame game. The rough 6 months are in the PAST. If you want to improve your relationship, you start fresh and grow together by putting aside whatever happened before.
I don't know what made your 6 months rough, and I'm sure it's hard to forget. But forgiveness can be powerful just like sexual favors.
...............................
A
female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Decorate the house with candles and flowers. Put up pictures of the two of you together all around the place. Dim the lights, find some romantic, seductive music, plan an elegant but simple to prepare meal, have a luscious dessert ready, put on your best dress (I mean your BEST dress, no matter how dressy it is), do your hair in lovely soft curls, put on some make up if it makes you feel pretty, make sure you smell good, make sure the house smells good (cookies on the oven is a nice thing), set the table with your finest china and flatware and linens. Create an atmosphere of peace and beauty, considering all his senses, sight, sound, touch, smell and taste. Tidy away all the mundane things of life, like the mail and unironed clothes and dishes in the sink. Be creative and you can really set a lovely scene for him to walk into and be enveloped in love and caring.
Then you know what to do!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): A meal can be as special as you want it to be. If you're tight on money then its the little things that count. I'm sure he knows that you don't have much of a budget so he'll appreciate what your doing, and it will be clear that you're making an effort to make him happy, which is the important thing.
Why don't you do just that? Marks and Spencers often do good meals for two deals, with a starter, main course and desert etc. So it will be easy, won't take too long (if you work week days) and will still be yummy. You could make the table all nice and light a few candles, put some peaceful music on in the background and that will make it special. Maybe get a bottle of wine or your favourite drinks, and just take control of the evening. He will love that.
Tell him you've got a special evening planned for him that morning, maybe say something suggestive, and he'll be looking forward to it all day.
Then after dinner you could just talk for a while, quietly and intimately. Maybe give him a massage, thats a good idea because you have time for your food to go down but its still seductive (if you do it right).
Then grab his hand and lead him to the bedroom.
Honestly, he'll love the fact that you're in control and he will feel like the luckiest boyfriend alive. :)
...............................
A
male
reader, RyanS +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Give something he likes, even if its low cost. The feeling matters not the money. And make sure to really treat him like a king in bed, which again doesn't cost a thing.
...............................
|
