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writes:hi!I like a guy from my college.He has got to know that I like him from someone. He doesn't have any idea that I also know he has information about me liking him. So whenever we come across each other he looks at me from far and every time when we get close he just glances for a second. I found him looking at me sometimes. Even when I dont notice him, my friends tell me that he looks at me. Why does he react in such weird manner?Pretty Please do help me!What are the signs he may give when he has developed feelings for me or if he has started liking me.? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 April 2015):
 If he is a professor at your college, hopefully he is smart enough and professional enough to keep you at arm's length, also because he knows that anything romantic with you could cost him his reputation and his job.
If he looks at you, - maybe he does just because the
" onfo " he got about your crushing on makes him nervous and uncomfortable; or, because a professor is still a man, and if he likes what he sees, he will look ( discreetly ).
As for " developing feelings ", he is an adult, not a young kid. Feelings do not grow up just from seeing- or looking at - a pretty face. That would not be
" feelings ", it would be an infatuation. Adults can get infatuations too, - but let's call things by their proper name anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat if I tell the guy is a professor at my college
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (5 April 2015):
If a guy "likes" you in a romantic way he'll do more than just look at you.
The more confident guys will ask you out. Or flirt with you
Less confident guys will at least approach you for conversation (until they build up the confidence to ask you out)
Shy guys might need you to initiate a converation with them but they're usually happy to talk once the conversation gets going.
Try talking to him if you think he's shy...
If he's not a shy guy, then I'm afraid he probably isn't interested and the "looks and glances" that you've been observing are wishful thinking.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 April 2015):
 You can't develop feelings from looking at people. It's very common to like the face of someone because it's pleasant to look at. It invites more glances because you are curious about them. That doesn't mean people suddenly start dating because of that. They have to be emotionally ready for it. The only sign of true interest is to ask someone out. A shy boy may feel flattered that he has someone crushing on him but not knowing what to do, for fear of embarrassing himself in front of others. Dating in college is best when you don't have to involve your friends as messengers. It puts them on the spot. You can try talking to him about general things to break the ice. Boys and girls put each other on a pedestal and think they are mystical creatures. Let him know that you can be down to earth and approachable. He may reach out to you as a result.
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