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writes:We dated for 7 yrs and broke up 9 months ago. He did it w/o an explanation. He called for the first time after 6 mos then again after 8 mos.. the 2nd time he called he asked if we could meet up. I dodged the question .. so he called again a week later trying to schedule a day. He henced i was hesitant and said it wasn't a date .. he just wanted to hang out and have fun.. I ended up meeting up with him 2 weeks later.It was awkward at first and then got a bit too familiar. But all in all it went well.. we just caught up. He said he doesn't want a gf right now (he volunteered that info i didn't ask or make any implications that i would want him back)Today a month later he called again and just BSed. He said he realized my bday is coming up and wanted to know what i was doing .. and invited me to hang out with him. I of course said no.. which he claims to understand why. Then he was telling me about his new apartment and how i should check it out. Said he would call me on my bday. Also made it a point to say i didn't call him for his..I know him well enough to know he isn't trying to make me out to be a booty call he wouldn't do that. But i don't know what hes trying to accomplish.He recently got his own apartment and is claiming to be "grown".. "not fully yet but getting there".Is he trying to be friends, trying to get back with me or trying to keep me on the back burner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): I think he just realize how imprtant you are to him and obvially he misses you.
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (4 September 2009):
 I think he has gone out there trying to rediscover himself.I also feels the tendrils of your heart tugging at his. In a way, it may seem a bit weird, but he's halfway between wanting to get back with you, or looking for you to mother him.It just seems odd. I do know this much: he has never forgotten you. Whatever his heart is telling him, its to call home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): It sounds like he's just missing you. You were together for 7 years and have been a huge part of his life during that time.As for the whole does he want to get back with you or not. I'm not sure. I think you're just going to bite the bullet and ask him straight out why he left? and if he still has feelings for you?Sorry not much help.
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