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male
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36-40,
*blade
writes:I met this girl on a web site.we went on a date on sat night and met her again on sunday.We had so much fun.. went back to her house on saturday night ( no sex) and sunday she came over we went to the pool ( no sex) she wants to wait. I respect that.. it means she likes me i guess. We already said to each other she doesnt play games she doesnt like to waste time pretty deep convo.On Tuesday i sent her a text saying have a good day ay work she replied with ' you too :)'On wednesday night i called her and she picked up and she couldnt talk and she said she'll talk to me later.. so i msged her saying call me back when you are free and no call back.. I called her again after 2 hours.. no asnwer.. Today is thursday which i didnt text.. because it seems needy... If i msg her tomorrow which is Friday to get together on saturday night is she likely to reply back?We both talked about liking each other and we click together so well.. am i just being paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2014): I agree with the others, stop contacting her at all. If she wants to continue things then she will.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 July 2014):
 Calling her back up is needy, even texting her when she told you she can't talk right now. However, I don't think it's enough to scare her away, seeing as you've already had a few dates and it went well.
Just send her a text next, just ONE text. If she doesn't respond then she doesn't respond and you leave it at that. Just give her some breathing space for a little bit, she's probably just busy with other things, nothing personal.
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reader, -BMBTL-  +, writes (18 July 2014):
 Just text her this time, and if she doesn't reply then leave it :)
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (18 July 2014):
 The new personal communication skills are limited to text,msg and FB? Th ONLY real way to communicate is face-to face. If she doesn't want to see you face to face drop her like a hot potatoe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2014): I think you are reading into this a bit much, maybe it was jut a series of unfortunate coincidences. Give it a shot, if you click so well you have nothing to fear :) it also sounds like she's a busy person by the act that she 'doesn't want to waste time', so maybe she's just a busy sort of person which would explain why she hasn't got back to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2014): I wouldn't text or call her back. The fact that she never called you back when she said she would says that she's not as interested as you are. Yes, you would portray a needy personality if you kept blowing up her phone.
Let her be the one to find you now. I know women traditionally think that men should do the chasing but this one already knows you're interested. Its her turn to show she's not into games
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