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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi.. i met this girl we connected instantly.. we hung out after we met and we kissed and had a great time.. we talked on the phone and she told me that she did have a boyfriend but that she really liked me.. we talk all day every day for a week now.. and we hung out 3 days out of the week.. she drives an hour to see me so she definitely puts in the time.. she tells me that she doesnt want to hurt me so she tells me not to take it too serious.. but we miss each other always talk.. she is honestly a beautiful girl and she even tells me she always gets what she wants.. im happy talking to her and spending time with her and i know she feels the same way.. but im just wondering for all the beautiful girls out there that just work and party and drink all the time and have fun and get what they want. and dont let drama go into there life.. what are u really looking for? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): We are just looking for fun! We like the fun of having a lot of male attention and like to leave our options open to it. I used to do this too but then met "the One" even though I really didn't think I wanted a serious relationship just yet. My advice to you is if she tells you not to take her serious yet then don't--play it cool and don't be her puppet. If you really are the one for her, she will quickly change her ways and realize that she isn't having as much fun anymore with others and want to just be with you. If not, it just wasn't going to happen. Good luck!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 I assume that this girl is not looking for a boyfriend. Don't feel like you're one. She's been clear from the very beginning.
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