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writes: I have just started to see this guy for a week and I have found out that he used to sleep with anything that walked and ended up with a sexual disease, so by then his wife had found out and chucked him out! I'm not sure if I can trust him! What do I do? I'm twenty years old and he is thirty two! Reply to this Question
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reader, pica +, writes (4 August 2006):
"Used to sleep with anything that walked"??! But he gave all that up when he met you, right ;))
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (3 August 2006):
 I'd say to you, run a mile. Not only is he a complete slut, he also did all this while he was married?! I have no sympathy for women who get involved with men like this and wonder why they get hurt. Really, honey, get out while you still can.
What makes you think you're anything more to him than the other girls he slept around with? You're not his wife, and he even cheated on her! I don't mean this to sound harsh but men like this rarely change and you're setting yourself up for the same fate as his wife. If you don't trust him now, can that get any better?
However, I did say 'rarely change'. My boyfriend did a lot of sleeping around and got an STD too. Now he's with me, he wants to get married, have babies etc and he's the most fantastic boyfriend in the world! He did change his life and it is possible but just be sure before you jump.
I hope this has helped, send me a private message if you want to chat more. Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2006): You've known him for a week. Hope to heck you haven't slept with him!
You sound in doubt about the whole thing, and he sounds VERY dubious as a potential boyfriend! Has a sexual disease from sleeping with "anything that walked"; his ex-?wife found out and ditched him; he's a lot older than you.
You can do MUCH better than this! Why don't you consider cutting your losses and dropping him pronto?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2006): If you can't trust him, do you not think then that the solution is quite simple for you? As with most other things, you can either A) give it time, or B) move on.
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