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writes: dear cupid, my girlfriend and i have recently split up, she says she has feeling for someone else but i still love her more than anything, what should i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2006): Hi,
I've just broken up with my boyfriend who I still love and probably always will. The break up was inevitable because he was younger than me, immature when he needed to be responsible and just wanted to play out with his mates all the time (He is 22). He would rather bury his head in the sand when we were faced with problems and go to the pub, rather than face them. The fact is he was selfish. If you're putting all your effort into a relationship and the other person isn't, you can't stay together because you will end up resenting them. I didn't want to end up hating him, so I let him go and have his freedom.
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reader, chunkymunky  +, writes (17 April 2006):
 It's hard when someone doesn't return the love you have for them, but unfortunatly yes you do have to move on. Theres no easy way around it and it will be upsetting seeing her moving on with someone else but in time you will learn to love again.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (16 April 2006):
 Let her go, play second fiddle to no one.
She wants someone else then that is the way it is going, just let her get on with it, she is moving on and you in time will also find someone new, you love her but in time the intense feelings will fade and you will focus on other things like work and friends.
Breaking up is never easy but going back is always a mistake and just prolongs the agony.
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