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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and i am completely crazy about him. however, even though weve been together for 5 months, we have never gone farther than making out. is this normal? he is 18 and i am 16. i am his first girl friend, first date, and first kiss. before i dated him i was in a semi abusive relationship for 11 months and it has made it hard for me to be open about doing anything more physical than kissing. ive talked my boyfriend about that before and hes says that he is ok with me not wanting to go farther than we have because he says he wouldnt want to go father even if i was ok with it. is this normal? should i be worried about my boyfriend secretly wanting to go father and not telling me?
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reader, new_at_this +, writes (27 November 2009):
new_at_this is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys :) that helped a lot :)
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 I think you should consider yourself lucky to have found such a considerate and respectful guy! :) Clearly he is just trying to go at your pace, he doesnt want to rush you into anything you're not ready for (especially in light of your previous relationship). Just enjoy the way things are going, don't force them to progress - let it happen naturally and it'll be so much better :) good luck!
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reader, SuddenlyConfusedAgain  +, writes (26 November 2009):
He sounds great! You're lucky!!
Theres nothing strange about that, whats wrong with getting to know each other first? And when something more happens, it will happen naturally!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): No of course you don't have to be woried
ANd if he's realy in ove you he will accept to not do anything
When a boy loves a girl he wont follow u jst to make out
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): No, I think he respects you, not all guys are abusive jerks, some actually like the girl enough to just enjoy being with her without the sex. The only thing you have to worry about is you, and why you think at your age you need to go further than making out and risking an unwanted pregnancy or hurting someone who is not emotionally ready for a more physically intimate relationship.
Just relax and enjoy your boyfriend. Guys usually say what they mean, they aren't that complicated where we need to analyze their every move and every word. He is showing with his behavior that he cares about you and respects you. He's been hanging around you for five months so he must like you a lot.
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