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*rsmith
writes:Ok where do I begin!! My ex husband and I were married 6 years together 10! I caught him with another woman which was his ex girlfriend! OH I caught them!! I divorced him and met someone new! He begged me and begged me! I realized that the man I was seeing was really a rebound because I really did love my exhusband ! I really thought we would be together forever!So then I realized maybe I should have give us another chance!Well we sleep together several times! Then he meet a woman 8 years older than me and moved her into our home probably 8 months after our divorce! My name is still on the house! He keeps calling and telling me that he wants to get back together with me! So I recorded him and played it for his girlfriend. I showed her phone records where he was calling me! She is still with him! She believes everthing he says and I have given her the proff! He called me the other day and asked me if I had any remorse for what I DID!!! I told him no! She needs to know what a liar and a cheat you are!! I know what he is why do I still love the asshole and want our life to be happy again like we use to be?She is stupid but I will not be played like that!! I have told her what he is doing and she is still with him! I miss him but my pride will not alow him to walk over me! He is narcisstic and I can't be with him but I still love him!! I feel like an idiot! Like our whole marriage was a lie!!!! How can I get him out of my head! I mean I will not allow him to use me but I want to stop loving him so I can find someone who I can love and love me back!!!!
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reader, trsmith +, writes (26 November 2009):
trsmith is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advise! I will work on it! He called me last night and wanted to wish me a happy Thanksgiving! You are right he is cruel to me! I wish that older woman could see what he is doing to her! I mean I played the tapes to her and let me just say they were pretty incriminating (sexual) But that is not my problem now it is hers! The holidays are very hard for me, I lost my mom 6 years ago! However, I am in back in college going for my nursing degree and I do go to the gym! He even told me how sexy I was looking! I just want to find someone and be happy!! Thanks again! Happy Thanksgiving!!
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