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writes:I have a girlfriend who I have been with for 11 months, but I'm starting to feel like I'm losing the spark with her and I'm starting to get feelings for this other girl, Julie, who my girlfriend hates. I tell her I don't speak to Julie but I do and I want to be with Julie but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend and I can't keep feeling like this, please help :) thanks.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Tell your girlfriend you don't want to be in the relationship anymore. Just say you lost the spark or connection or whatever you want to say and that you want to be on your own. Please do not tell her about Julie. It will crush her even more than just ending the relationship. Nothing hurts worse than hearing your bf has met someone else, let alone someone she knows and hates. Atleast you are decent enough to end it with your girlfriend rather than cheating on her like a lot of guys who post on here. Good luck with everything.
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reader, Fee-Fee +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Sparks fade hon - fact of life.
You can't keep on with your current relationship if it does not make you happy.
Tell her face to face with none of this "we need to talk, it's not you, it's me" bulls**t.
If you tell her the truth, you feel the spark is gone, you like her as a person and would love to be friends, but you just don't feel the relationship is working for you.
You can expect one or all of the following: tears, tantrums, begging, questioning or arguing, just stay calm and answer as honestly as possible.
We all have heartbreak at some point in our lives. As destitute as she may be, she will survive. Honest!
Good luck.
Fee
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