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We've been dating six months and he's never hugged or kissed me or even held hands!

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Question - (12 September 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hiia

i need help my boy friend doesnt seem interested in me we've been dating for 6 months and not once has he either kissed me, huggd and not even held hands , its soo annoying can you help please ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008):

dose he know you guys are datting because he sounds like a friend!?!

and you should start by holding hands and ect.

talk to him and see if somethinqs bugging him mayb that the reason who knowz

GOOD LUCK!:)

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2008):

Does he know that he is your boyfriend? He sounds like a male friend to me.

Hold his hand - it's not exactly jumping on him.

Either that or talk to him and ask him what your relationship is and if he says that you are his girlfriend then ask him why he hasn't kissed you yet.

At 25 I think it's a serious problem.

If your age is wrong and you are younger, it's not so serious, but still worrying.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, saltwater United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2008):

saltwater agony auntUmm, 26-29...your grammar is pretty poor if you are that age...

Anyway, talk to him. I would want to hold hands with my partner after 6 months.

Hugging and kissing are essential things early in a relationship in my view.

Why don't you go to hold his hand then? If he isn't going to instigate hugging or holding hands himself...then why don't you?

Take care

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008):

Er...maybe he's too embarrassed to initiate anything. Why don't you just hold his hand? Lean over and kiss him? I'm sure he'll be relieved you made the first move and be very responsive.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008):

Talk to him about it.This is a serious problem as there needs to be intimacy in a relationship.Is he scared to get too attached?Is he scared to get close?Is he afraid to get hurt?Talk to him about it and ask him these questions.

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