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writes:Sorry if this is long guys i just need some reassuring (: !My boyfriend of seven months, threw me a 16th birthday party, and yes there was alcohol there. ( my parents new about the party and went out, they didnt no about the alcohol being there tho!)As it was in my house me and boyfriend didnt drink much and consentrated on tidy up etc, when everyone had gone we started to tidy up with a few drinks, by around eleven oclock we were quite drunk and ended up undressing each other and going upstairs, we have been sexual active for around 3 months and i have a c-card so we have always used condoms. ( i was on the second day of my period but my boyfriend doesnt mind being sexual active during this time) This time tho we got the condom out but didnt put it on, i dont no why i guess alcohol and sex is a bad thing when put together. He pulled out just before he came and then panicked as he had rememberd he hadnt put the condom on. I got up early the next day and went down family planning clinic as i no about pre-cum and stuff as before i had sex i made sure i new everything. I explained to the nurse that i was on my period but i had un-protected sex, she went and got the doctor and he said that there was a less than 3% chance that i would be pregnant as i was on my period at the time, but if it would put my mind at rest i could take the morning after pill and so i did ( i took it after 12 hours of having unprotected sex). This was on the 6th of august and i came off my period on the eleventh, ( it was a normal period) I have never, ever had regular periods, for the whole 3 years that ive been having them i have randomly missed months and ive never had a set date, sometimes id come on after 4 weeks sometimes 5 or 6. But this time now i am worrying, i have all the symptoms of my period coming, painfull boobs, getting very emotional, moodyness etc but no period, I no that stress can cause them to stop and i am deffinatly stressing out over this one. I no im probally being stupid as my periods are always late but i need peoples advice on what they think just to put my mind at ease. Also i no the morning after pill can mess around with your periods so maybe its that, But i dont no!Thank you so much, your all life savers!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): I am in the same situation right now. I took the morning after pill around four weeks ago, and since then have had a very light bleeding/spotting for around 4 - 5 days. My period should be due this week, and I've been feeling moody and tense. My guess is that the pill has slightly altered your period time, though I completely understand the anxiety - I keep telling myself to calm down, but it's difficult when your mind starts to wander! Good luck and I hope everythiing works out OK for you :)
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (13 September 2008):
 now your 16 you can go to the gps or the family planning clinic and go on the pill or the implannon their all free by the way and means that if something like this were to happen again you would have something to fall back on..my periods used to be regular and when i was active they were all over the place never new when they were coming or going or even how many days they would last 14 days was the worst..sometimes they can be clockwork the next their not lol.. the morning after pills is most effective during the first 24 hours after that 48 hours its less effective..just relax hun i know your stressed and worrying but dont it will only upset yourself go to the family planning clinic or the gp and get a pregnancy test and put your mind at ease.. although i would highly doubt that you are!!!! but do it for your own piece of mind.. im also glad that you are being responsible about it all you deserve a praise for that *cheers*.. hope that helped aphexy
ps good luck xx hugs
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