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writes: - we've been together for 10yrs - we do not want to get married as on both our sides our parents have gone through 3 marriages- there is no longer any communication besides for the norm, hello etc- we love each other - have discussed have a baby within the next 3 yrs- I'm 27 and he is 31- I need some kind of committmentWhat can I do to get things back track? Reply to this Question
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reader, beenthere +, writes (11 February 2006):
i think i know where you're coming from here. i've been with my bf for about 2 years and there is already a complete lack of communication! commitment doesn't have to mean getting married. you love each other and want to have a baby together. i'd call that commitment. as for the communication issue. it is possible that after 10 years, there is just not so much to talk about. do you talk to each other when you need to? or is it that you don't talk at all even when there are things to be said? do you have a hobby or interest in common which you could do together. this might be a good way of learning to communicate again and give you something to talk about which will interest you both
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