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writes: I've got a friend that I was seeing a while ago. We have been friends for years. We both had told each other we had feelings for each other but it never really progressed into a relationship (he wasnt ready for one), so we split, deciding to just be friends again. I got together with another guy, which he knows about (he is seeing someone else too but isn't in a relationship with her either). The problem is he stopped contacting me saying he was too busy to. He would only reply to a few of my texts but would always answer his phone and was very happy to talk to me when I phoned him. He constantly told me to phone him and would ask if I wanted to meet up sometime during the week,(to which he either pulled out saying he was tired or didn't arrange anything at all). I haven't seen him in 4 months, although we would talk every other day when I called. Three weeks ago I took some advice and stopped phoning him, thinking he would get in contact, (it's only ever gone as long as a week before he has contacted me apologising for it taking him so long). So far nothing. What should I do? This guy is a friend and I care a lot about him. I don't want to lose him but we do have a complicated past. Should I contact him or wait it out for him to contact me? Why has he suddenly stopped wanting to talk to me? He got a promotion at work and now has a pay and go phone so Ii understand he doesn't always have credit but he still works the same hours he used to.Our past relationships with others didn't get in the way of our friendship, so what is it?
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (23 May 2005):
I would say that the friend is moving on, call him every now and then if you feel the need to, but don't go arranging your life around it...you are definately NOT in this man's appointment book.
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