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writes: I like him and he likes me... so why won't it work?He says that the age difference (4years) is too much and so we couldn't be together but I want to be more than friends. He texts me almost every day and I get so excited that he does. How do I tell him how I feel? Or should I just forget it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): Don't worry if you love each other,it's definitely gonna work.i wish i had a boyfriend.George
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (24 May 2005):
Four years is the average age difference between men and women in ongoing relationships, usually with the man being the older of the two. BUT since you did not say how old you two are, you have to keep in mind the maturity and life experience aspects too. The difference between 16 and 20 is massive: the difference between 22 and 26 is not so big. OR he could just be trying to gently put you off without hurting your feelings. This is more likely to be the problem than your ages.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2005): if he likes you and you like him there isnt a problem! age relly dosent matter. maybe if you was 16 and he was 40 but there's only 4 years difference. i think you should go for it tell him how you feel face to face he might get the message but he might be worried about what other people will think you have to look at it from his point of view.
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reader, curtis +, writes (27 April 2005):
hi,i think that you should lay it down to him. ask him how he feels about you regardles of the age difference. if your under age then i can understand his concerns but if your both adults then whats his problem?maybe hes unsure how he feels himself or maybe hes just passing the time of day with you.either way you deserve to know so go for it and ask him.if its not the answer that you expected at least you know where you stand and your better of without him.good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2005): The age gap makes no difference. My question to you is how well do you know this man? Is he married? Single? Is there a possibility of you to becoming a couple? My thoughts on this are that you should talk to him in person and see how he really feels about you. In online relationships and by using text messaging you can get a "warm, fuzzy" feeling because someone is paying attention to you. It is a wonderful feeling to have someone "thinking" about you, but be careful because your heart could be broken. Face to Face communication is the key..Good luck sweetie!! but don't put all of your faith in a text message. "D"
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