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*nonymous19
writes:Hey guys i need some help or advice. The thing is this i have a friend who is a guy and we've known each other for 4yrs. At 1st i liked him and he liked me but nothing happened so we've decided to be best friends. I might stil have feelings for him and he knows it. I dont want to have feelings for him coz nothin wil come of it. Recently somehow i found out dat he had sex with a gal ths was his 2nd time. The thing is he lied to me and i was truly hurt. I stopped speakin with him but now he is speakin with me and apologisd and stuf. What do i do? I dont wana get hurt. He is realy special to me he has somthin special i dont know what it is that keeps me comin back. Help! Im realy confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): Anon19, you say you are not bf and gf in any real sense of the term. Just friends. That being the case, what he does is really his business. If you are upset with him, it is because of something you may feel that you have never said. You may not approve of what he did...or you think he did...but you have no reason to be "hurt". He certainly was not "cheating" on you. If you have special feelings for this boy, you should either say so or give him reason to know that you do. He may or may not feel the same, but you won't know till then. You say you know "nothing would come of it".. How do you know? Maybe you have just been giving off vibes that say to him that you are not interested. Of course you should think carefully. You may not have enough in common to be more than just friends. You are the one to decide. But, it seems you are very confused about your feelings right now.
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reader, Anonymous19 +, writes (29 November 2008):
Anonymous19 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx 2 u guys uhm i have told him how i feel. Im open with him and he with me. He knew it would upset me if i knew but he has apologised. He always does though i dnt knw why sometimes.
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (29 November 2008):
Both of you have some feelings for each other, a guy wouldnt hide the fact he had sex unless he was somewhat interested in you.
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reader, Neil-san  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 Well, I think that you have to talk to him that what happened was something that really got you hurt.Tell him that he is a very special person for you, and that you can't bear that he lied to you.You have to find the bravery to tell him, because, if you can't tell him what you feel, you gonna feel terrible everytime more and more
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