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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay well my cousin [20yrs] and i[23yrs] have been having sex for 5 yrs. it started off as a fling sorta thing and at one point we didn't see or date anyone else but each other. now he is settle with a an older woman with kids and i am married with 1 child. he has asked me to marry him before, but i was too scared and went ahead and married my my, now, husband. it's been almost a year since we hooked up and recently he has been asking about leaving my husband and even having his baby. i love him with all my heart and as crazy as it sounds, i would love to run away with him and have a life together, but i am not sure if it will cause my son [now] future psychological problems knowing the situation. what should i do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 June 2010):
You can't just run away. Your husband will have rights to see his son, and if your son finds out you're seeing your cousin, that could cause him problems. I'm not sure you're thinking this through properly. Running away seems great until you look at the while picture, which will mean you and your husband splitting custody of your son, the pain your husband and son will both go through, and the pain that your cousin's partner will suffer. You really should not have married and had a child with this man. The price is that you need to now think very carefully. You can either work on your marriage and stop seeing your cousin, or you can go for broke. Decide carefully.
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