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writes: dear cupid, me and my fiance are getting married in august of 2007. i feel that i have not been totally open with him.i want to be a better person in our intimate life but it just seems that i can't do more than i should, i have not gave it my all on purposely because of what we hve went through in the past. everything is fine, better than it has ever been. i want to tell him these things. do you think i should be open and tell him the things that i have been keeping from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): Thank you this was helfpful and i went ahead and took your advice and i had my talk with my fiance and it worked out very well.
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reader, jack23 +, writes (15 November 2006):
 Think about it. Is what you havnt told him really bothering you? Do you feel you can have a happily married life without sharing this information with him?
Think years ahead ... how would you feel having not told him? Would it be nagging at you or does it not really matter and thus not affect anything. Ofcourse it is worth taking into consideration ther seriousness of what it is you have not told him, but ultimately it is better to be open and honest.
I believe that is must be getting to you if you are at the point of coming on here to ask advice. So my advice would be to be open and tell him, least then it is off your chest and doesnt need to bother you anymore.
Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): if u really want to tell him these things whats stopping u from doin it?if u are scared of his reaction then decide what all u should tell him, if he is gonna find out abt it later it will be even more difficult.
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