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I'm really scared my first time will hurt!!

Q.   Ok, well i'm 16 and me and my boyfriend are getting serious and we want to have sex. I'm really scared because it's my first time, and i'm just really freaking out because i'm scared it's going hurt really bad. So i've been telling him no everytime, ...

A.   9 April 2008: There is no doubt, you are not ready. The comments you made said so. The best advice I can give you is to wait until you are married. There is no better gift you can give your new husband than your virginity the night of your wedding. Once it... (read in full...)

I'm scared of telling him how I feel, which is strange as I'm always so open and honest. Can anyone suggest how I should handle it?

Q.   Hi, I dated this boy, for a year about a year ago. I ended rather unfairly; and hurt him quite badly. we were both 17 at the time. A year on, I've grown up a lot and am far more mature than I was then, I have suddenly realised that I may have ...

A.   1 April 2008: First of all, be sure that your apology if that is what that was is accepted. Things may never truly be right until he understands that you intend on making up. Even if you don't plan on getting back together. Secondly, don't worry about a boyfri... (read in full...)

We're both 14 and she might be pregnant...

Q.   im 14 and i think i made my 14 year old GF pregnant we dont know if she is or not im scared and dont know what to do is anyone in the same situation as me or has anyone been in this situation before PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!...

A.   25 March 2008: I am going to try and tell you like a friend should. You may be coming up on the biggest change that will ever happen in your whole life. Life is nothing to take likely. And you and your gf may have just created it. She needs to find out for ... (read in full...)

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