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We were close friends, she asked to take it further, I said no and now I regret it!

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Question - (23 July 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

im in a bit of a dilema here. let me start at the begining of it all. there was this girl i was best friends with and eventually she started hinting that she liked me in that way, she then asked me properly if i would date her but i didnt want it to ruin our great friendship, now she is seeing another guy and im really regretting my decision and want her so badly now , what shhould i do?

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2006):

Angelicc agony auntYou can't do anything you missed your chance she's moved on and you've gotta let her go.

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A female reader, chazx United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2006):

chazx agony auntsee if she likes this other guy alot and sort of say that u really regret letting her go to another guy because you wish you had said yes now because you want her. just be straight with her

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006):

Well you just answered your own question. Everything in your paragraph is now trivial and discarded. What you should do has nothing to do with her and him. End of story.

All you can do is stay friends, be supportive, and don't get in the way of their relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006):

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i forgot to mention that she now dates one of my best mates so thats like a big no no =[

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A female reader, singlemomof1 +, writes (23 July 2006):

singlemomof1 agony auntDo you only want her now because she isn't avaiable, that is the first question that needs to be answered. The relationship she is in now needs to be allowed to run its course and if or when she becomes single again, then you need to make your move if you still feel the same

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