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30-35,
*il_dreamer
writes:there is this guy named "J". He is soooo sweet and nice and i have no problem with him whatsoever. but their is a problem with our relationship. its that i never even heard his voice.he found me on facebook, and we started from there. we talk on aim, but we text 24/7. literally. we text allllll the time. but we never even called each other or met in person. we just text constantly. im beginning to like him and i get the impression he likes me. but im afraid that when we communicate on a deeper level, things will get weirder or different. i want us to call each other and have a better relationship with that but im kinda nervous bout calling him... =/cuz i know texting is not a proper or healthy way of having a real relationshipadvice please?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Crazy mind is right if you do meet you must make sure there are plenty of people around especially if you don't know him and he is just a random add.as for the callin i understand you'll be nervous but there really is no need to be.are you perhaps nervous to call him incase he isn't actually whom he says he is?and you are right just texting isn't much of a relationshipbut you do need to meet up and at least call eachother every now and again if you're shy ask him to call you or something.but be so very careful hun!!Hope this helps:)
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reader, CrazyMind +, writes (14 April 2009):
 First things first, is make sure that you know who you're talking to. Do you know this person via other friends, or is it somebody random off the internet? If/when you do decide to meet, make sure it's in a public place, and preferably don't go alone.Now that safety's out of the way...There are plenty of questions to ask, e.g. do you live near, the above question of random or 'extended circle' etc..You're nervous about calling him, which is understandable, but somebody has to call first. Is this relationship something you're both serious about, or would you be better off just being friends for now - I personally don't think that it can be serious if neither of you are willing to call the other. You need to decide if you want this relationship to be more than just friends, or if keeping a simple relationship would be the better option for both of you at the given time/situation.I hope I may have helped in some way, though I think it's just rambling..!Regards,Crazy.
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