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writes: Hey I‘m 15, and I met someone a couple of nights back at my friends social event. We hit it off right away and were chatting all night. He even gave me a miniature of his recent school photo. At the end of the night we traded phone numbers and email addresses. I’m not really sure whether he likes me though, because I don’t usually meet guys so I don’t know how to act other than myself and I don’t know whether I weirded him out and he only took my details to be polite! I don’t know, I’m really confused! How can I tell if he genuinely likes me or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, lildeesbg  +, writes (12 September 2005):
 It sounds like to me you have self-esteem problems. If you acted like yourself then way to go !! You need to be comfortable with yourself before you start any type of relationship, especially a romantic one. If I am right and you do have alittle self-esteem problem what do you think it is? Your 15 years old and your still maturing and finding out who you are. Your body is changing and since it is all new it can come off strange. Just be confident in who you are. Confidence is sexy!! guys can pick it up whether or not a girl is confident.
Anyways, to me it seems that he is into you. I mean on top of giving you his digits, he gave you a photo too. Thats sweet. Just take your time with this. No need to rush anything. After you start some type of relationship, you will be able to tell if he sees you as a friend or something more. If you cant really tell, then one day ask him. You can say "You know ----(fill in the his name) sometimes i get a mixed signals from you, i dont know if you like me as a friend or alittle more." See what he say. If he answers alittle more, then the rest is up to you. If he says friend, then thats great too, you just made a new friend.
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reader, pops +, writes (11 September 2005):
If you were closer to him there would be several ways to tell. However, considering your age, and lack of experience, the only way you can tell about this boy is to talk to him. You don't have to ask him directly if he likes you- I suspect he would not have given you his picture or traded his phone and email address numbers. But, You do need to get to know him better. Go for a walk, of get a soda as an excuse for conversation. Keep it light, and go slow. Its both exciting for both of you, and also a little frightening, as you are going into new territory. You are always going to be slightly anxious when you meet new people. But, you should see that as part of the fun of the experience. What to talk about? What would you want to ask you about? Ask him those questions. He wants to know what he has in common with you, too. And starting a conversation with a girl is just as difficult for a guy as the reverse. Good Luck.
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