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writes: Heya all....... well here I am 3-4 weeks on and I still ain't got her back and beginning to wonder if I ever will or if I should just walk now for good? Sometimes I wish I could but I can't; I love her too much and I still know deep down she has strong feelings for me. We text most days though we ain't met up yet. She has asked me to sort something with her from a time when we were together, but I have sorted the couple of problems that caused us to split and she knows that as she works with my sister..... but I also know she has been for quite a few drinks with another lad and maybe more. I do seriously love this woman but do I let go or try saving something I know could be so special. She really is the one for me. I love everything about her to bits... I must stop now or the tears will start- a heartbroken 29yr old
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reader, beenthere +, writes (22 February 2006):
try a bit harder. does she know you love her and want her back? if she doesn't, you might miss your chance. she might just be killing time wit h this other guy or has given up waiting for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): If you love this woman, go do whatever you can to get her back. After everything, if she still rejects you, move on, and swallow the pain. Life continues with and/or without her. I care about most of my ex's, but it doesn't mean that I want them back. One of them still keep in touch with me, and I know she is still in love with me. She hasn't found any other guy for a couple of years now, but what am I to do? I don't love her, and my life right now is dedicated to my family and my current partner. So think about it. Try your best and try to get her back. If in the 'end', she accepts you, continue life as though tomorrow would be your last with her. If she rejects you, take a deep breath, cry your eyes out, punch some soft things, and go take a long walk, reflect a bit, and go on with life. I wish I can say the same thing to every heart broken man and woman on DearCupid.org, but then how many of them would really listen?Good luck and best wishes... 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): You've got to do something as soon as possible, don't you dare let her get away or you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Tell her how you feel-face to face-or better still you could show her how you feel. If you're not careful she'll find someone else and then you've missed your chance. I've been there and trust me, it's the worst feeling in the world. Even if she says she doesn't feel the same at least you know where you stand with her. good luck! xx
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