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writes: Hi. I have been having a few probs with my OH. The main one is that he seems to prefer internet porn to sex with me. Well, anyway, he stopped going on the internet altogether for a bit but today, he was playing a game (offline) when I left the house but was on the internet when I came in (a little earlier than expected). I have the feeling that he was looking at porn (or at least doing something else he shouldn't). Firstly because he waited until I had gone before he went on the net and, second because he seemed to be in a hurry to turn it off. Is this coincidence or has he started with the porn again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni can't check the internet history because we have seperate accounts on the computer. and it isn't that looking at porn is a "crime", it is that he has totally lost interest in me because he has chosen that instead. porn may be ok for some people but when it is ruining a relationship, whatever the background, then surely it needs to stop. it is ok saying use it to my advantage but, first of all, i want him to want me and be turned on by me because he wants me and second, how do i turn it to my advantage when he would rather sit at the computer and continue with it? i honestly don't understand people who think there is nothing wrong with this. i know he prefers porn to me because in the past 18 months we have had sex 3 times and he has literally pushed me away for porn. he will sit downstairs at the computer instead of being with me and if i try to make a move on him, he is totally uninterested. we used to have a good sex life before he got the computer so basically THAT is why porn is such a crime because before he had 24/7 access to it, i actually felt wanted and that i was in a relationship with someone who wanted me which i don't feel now.
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reader, sam12344321  +, writes (22 February 2006):
 hi there, firstly how do you know he prefers porn to sex with you? try and sit him down and have a chat, even if he was looking at porn just think to yourself, you've got him and he is yours,did you know you can check internet history in your pc? if your worried try that, hope this is ok good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Why is guys looking at porn such a crime these days? It makes no sense. Why not try looking at porn together, as he obviously enjoys it and that way you don't feel as though he prefers the porn to you. You could use his aroused state to your advantage! xx
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