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anonymous
writes:He split up with me other week and said he was fed up of everything and wanted space, he said he loves me and always will, one minute he said were together then he said he doesn't want me back.. I have just been diagnosed with depression, and i am 21 weeks pregnant with his child. I text him that night been a fool saying im sorry for whatever i've done, i want him back blah blah.. But no reply, so other day i deleted his number and all contact with him and play him at his own game in a way.. Still haven't text him yet, just want to know if he will text me first? All the other times we have got back together after a few days, but this time it's weird he's a totally different person with me.. Will he text me? Or is he wanting me to text him? He's going out getting drunk with his mates as he is living in a room above a pub at the minute.. I'm craving to text him and beg for him back, and ask why he's done this? His mum and dad hate me and never liked me, but he's always stuck up for me as i've done nothing wrong unless you class getting pregnant with the man you love a crime. Just need advice on why he's done it? Will he text me? What do i do? How can i get him back? I've got help to prove to him i'm serious about the relationship but it's not good enough for him :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): He should take responsibility for the human life you have created so I would think he'll contact you. But to go on with him that's another storyI think it might be helpful fir you to seek support in your communityTry alanon
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reader, empty-1  +, writes (3 June 2012):
He's scared. He's also an asshat. The ONLY shot you have is to give him plenty of time and space. Once he begins to realize that you respect his desire to be away, and can respect his wishes enough to leave him to it, he may start growing up. -MAY-If not, you're better off alone. If he does, however, then contact him about a month before the baby comes and ask simply about what level of involvement he wants. Let him know on no uncertain terms he's going to have to chip in his fair part on the financial side. However, if that's all he wants, don't pressure him.If he's still, at that point, asshat enough to try and keep away, you're better off without him. Truly. Even with a baby, it won't be hard for you to find better.
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