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writes:this is my first time going round town and basicly what do i do??? just got my i.d (im 19) my friends have invited me out tomorow night and what do i do? how do i speak to girls?? do i have to dance? (wich i cant) what about when my mate goes to the toilet do i just stand ther and wait?? help please! getting realy anxious :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): The most important thing is don't get drunk obviously have enough drinks until you feel relaxed enough but just try not to worry about it go out have a good time and enjoy yourself don't take any drugs even if your mates do if you see someone you like just be friendly and go over good luck and have a good time :)
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (3 June 2012):
 did you hear the word SWAG before? Well do your research.
No, you can't be standing there, looking intimidated.
You should smile and have a fun time with your friends. by no means go to the bathroom when ur mates go.
DO NOT GET DRUNK...that means NO MORE THAN 3 DRINKS. NO MORE THAN TWO SHOTS.
DO NOT TAKE ANY FORM OF DRUG
if you want to learn how to dance
1) watch videos/ instructional videos on youtube
for example : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y0q5gBK-Z8E
With the ladies :
Do not rely on ur friends for anything. Make sure you are receptive to girls. Make eye contact, if u see that a girl keeps looking at you,go to her and introduce urself. if u dont know how to do that, search "How to talk to a girl in a club"... GOOGLE HAS EVERYTHING.
good luck.
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reader, canadianboy101  +, writes (3 June 2012):
I agree with the first answer... Don't get too drunk.. then you'll just look like a fool. Just stay cool, you don't have to go on the dance floor "Trust me, I don't dance and go clubbing often". You can simply stand or sit around at the bar, keep your posture square and try to seem happy to be there even if you're not. The way you look and the way you stand/sit can tell a girl if you actually want to be there or not. If you see a girl that interests you, simply go out and buy her a drink ( obviously if she isn't already drinking one ). You don't want to look like "just another guy trying to get a girl drunk".
Anyhow, that's pretty much all I got for now.
Don't be nervous, it's not much harder then walking a dog.
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