A
female
age
36-40,
*aybe
writes: Ok i have a problem, A few weeks ago I bunch of my buddies and I went out to a bar we got really drunk and one of my buddies decided to crash at my house. We were bored and put on porn, we weere just talking when we looked up and didnt ever realize that we had put it on gay porn, since we were drunk and nothing else was on we watched it. We both were horny so we started strocking when all of a sudden he reached over and grabbed me and started giving me a hand job. I was shocked but it felt good so I didnt stop him. He ended up giving me oral until I had an orgasim. I didnt really know what to do afterwards. So just went to bed. A few hours later I woke to turn off the tv and when I walked past the couch he woke up and I dont even know why I did it but I started touching him. We both sat on the couch kissing and touching each other. I have never had any thoughts about guys before, Im really confused am I gay.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (8 October 2009):
look here is the thing,
drunk or sober.. its still an impulse. Nothing to be ashamed of, or worried about.
Gender preference is a genetic predisposition its not, elected or something to that effect.
If you were just horny, and let me give you oral, it would have ended there, but you did kiss and cuddle, which is the intimate aspect.
Dont be worried about it, BEAUTY DOESNT UNDERSTAND GENDER!
dont ever forget that.
-iydm
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): See this is what I hate. If this was a girl, it would be alright and people would say she is just experimenting, but when a guy does it people think he has to be gay. You were probably just wasted, horny, and wanted to have some fun and didnt care who it was with. Its aright to experiment with someone as long as you stay safe and understand its just fun and not anything serious. If you still are sexually attracted to women too, you could be bi. I say you guys bring a girl over and all three of you have some fun.
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male
reader, baddogbj +, writes (8 October 2009):
Looks like it. Good luck.
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female
reader, pinktopaz +, writes (8 October 2009):
Okay, so I'm guessing you're not female even though it says you are. It's up to you to decide if you're gay. If you are attracted to men and do sexual acts with men, then yes, you are typically considered gay. I only say this because the "typical male" would usually pop a guy in the face with his fist if another guy grabbed his penis. So either way, you're gay or bi. BTW, what were you doing with gay porn at your house?
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