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writes:Hi there im looking for HELP!!!!!!! i met this girl 3weeks ago and we are dateting for 1week. but whe had fights already and it was realy bad, but last night whe whent to friends and i had a alot to drink and we had a big fight over it, and i said some sfuff that was not ment to be said and im affraid that im going to loose this girl and i really dont whant to loose her coz im already inlove with her and got really strong feelings for her. so if any one can help me please do, i need some advice what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (9 September 2007):
Yeah dude, you are not in love in this short period. You have strong feelings, but you can't love her if you barely know her. You are just anticipating a future that might already be in jeopardy.
If you're having fights already, it probably means you are not compatible. Try to work it out in the next month (and even that is a generous time) and if you can't, move on.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 Its not really a good sign that you are having big arguments after just one week. I would put the last argument you had down to alcohol, we all say and do stupid things when we have had alot to drink.
Its only been one week so keep the relationship going and see how it goes. If the arguments are getting more frequent the i would be inclined to call it a day and move on.
Good luck
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reader, Jualsy  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 What has to happen before you will realise that this relationship is not a good one. If you can love someone and still get into situations like this you need to take a long hard look at your bahaviour in a relationship. We TEACH people how to treat us.....what are you teaching her???
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