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writes: I met this guy three weeks ago and I have really fallen for him. I know three weeks isn't a long time, but I feel like I'm definitely falling in love with him. This is what worries me--I don't know if he feels the same. He does call or text me every day and we have gone out every Friday and Saturday. He doesn't ever say anything about how he feels about me. I'm afraid to say how I feel, because I don't want to come across as being needy or clingy. Do you think he would tell me if he was feeling like he loves me--or do you think he just would assume that I would know? He is very nice and loving when we are together--and he is very talkative. Just not about his feelings. I guess I worry too (yes, I am a worrier) that maybe I'm just someone he is dating at the moment. He did introduce me last Friday as "his girlfriend" though. What do you think?
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reader, Jolin +, writes (19 August 2009):
you are defintely in Crush!
yknow, when it comes to love..it's more than just call or text on daily basis, and date on the weekend.
I think when he has not talked about the LOVE, the FEELING stuff, your relationship hasnt come to love yet..but it's a crush.
Just continue the friendship & enjoy the companionship, to test whether this is love or just a crush.
i think we all know, when a man fall in love with woman, he will let us know in the love language..it's just not only being talkactive..
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