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We met online and out of the blue he asked me a question I didnt want to answer

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Question - (2 February 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *izz.butterflies writes:

I've met this guy online,we have engaged in nice conversations so far via messaging and we talked a few times on skype.The last time we talked he randomly asked me If I thought of him.I didn't know what to say.Of course I had thought about him but I didn't wanna admit it that soon.What would you answer?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

Why not tell him the truth? He obvioulsy thinks of you and wanted to hear back.

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (2 February 2010):

mizz.butterflies is verified as being by the original poster of the question

mizz.butterflies agony auntHaha,thank you guys! I actually think you're right,I could of said yes,because now that I beat around the bush so much he can tell i was nervous aka intrested! Thnx again.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (2 February 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI don't see a problem with being honest. That yes, you do think of him. Now how detailed you want to be in that answer is entirely up to you..

Now wouldn't you be curious as to whether is is thinking of you?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

YOu should have said sometimes ;P

Xx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2010):

I think you should say that at this moment, you're still getting to know him and need more time to get to know him. That way he doesn't think things are moving too fast, and also you don't get rushed into anything you don't want to.

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (2 February 2010):

Ofcourse the answer should be yes if you are I interested in him. Or you ask him tell me first if you think of me. Its not like if you say yes then he will dump you. Boost his ego a little.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

I'd be honest.

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