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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:A guy who is a couple of years younger than me chatted me up in a bar a few days ago.He told me he lives in the same town as me but is going away to another town soon to study.It's the town he's originally from.We spoke abit and later he said to me that he wanted to kiss me before i went anywhere,meaning before i left the bar or went home,so i kissed him.I did have to push him a little bit sometimes too as he staggered and stood abit too close to me as he was quite drunk.And we saw these two girls he knew aswell and he told them i was his girlfriend and i said actually we've only just met.One of the girls told me he was a nice person.We also swopped numbers.He also wanted to go with me when i went home but i didnt think that was a good idea as i'd only just met him.I sent him a message yesterday saying i enjoyed it the other night and asked if he did and said i would like to see him again,but he hasnt replied.I dont understand why because he seemed really keen and i'm quite upset as i liked him.I will also feel embarassed if he doesnt get back to me and i have said i'd like to see him again.
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reader, helpme122796  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 he probably was just drunk and doesnt remember you
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reader, Happivibes +, writes (19 August 2008):
 We are all naive at some point, sweetie, this man was barely standing, you kissed him knowing he was incapable and are surprised he can't respond....he probably can't remember, lost your number, or has a girlfriend.
Mark it up to experience.
1. Avoid men who cannot stand up through drink!
2. do not kiss strangers, no matter how fab and rare...it makes it look like you do that to everyone.
3.He should text/call you if he is interested, if he hasn't after 3 or 4 days try a follow up text-it should just say, hi good to meet you, just saying what a great night it was on friday, Jen.x
4.Let him then do the running.
5.Everyone gets rejected, even models and movie stars.
Happy vibes to light your way. x
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reader, kenny +, writes (19 August 2008):
 I think that you should forget about this one, he was drunk, and even had trouble standing up. He probably got up in the morning and forgot all about it, or maybe he took the number down wrong, of lost it, who know's. If you can't forget about this then the only option is to give it a week and go back to that same bar, it could be that he is a regular there, and may return before he goes away.
All the best x
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reader, Carmen Jones +, writes (19 August 2008):
Umm maybe because you kissed him in a bar that you just met him at??
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