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writes:The man i date this year called me after a serious disagreement we had. However, I agreed to meet him so we met. He was nice to me and i had the impression that we would meet again soon. It has passed a week and more and he hasn't called me yet. I haven't called him and i would prefer he calls me. I don't feel very comfortable to call him. How can i explain all this? Is he very cautious? Does he want me to call him? Should i call him? Does he forget me and he is interested to other relationships? I am really confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): If you want to call him then do so. If he doesnt sound too chatty then take it that this isnt going anywhere. If he responds then good. Or you could sit back and wait for him to call, he may never do this. The choice is yours, not ours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): Well I don't know why you guys had a falling out. Or what he said when you guys did meet. I mean what was your status?? And why are you guys fighting??
In any case, my general rule, based on what guys themselves have given me as advice, is always wait for them to call. No matter what! Be strong and make him sweat it out. And so what if he met someone else. Cause if he did, then he is not worth your time anyways, is he??
Another thing, I never wait more than a week. If a guy takes too long to call me, usually a week is the longest I'll wait, then I just move on.
And be strong. Like if he does call you, act really happy and keep it SHORT. Say that you are in the middle of something and you'll call him back. And then don't call him back. Take charge!
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reader, Mariab  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 Don't read too much into the not calling. He has his reasons and no matter how much you rack your brain... you will never know them. Maybe he needs time to get over the disagreement - who knows? Maybe just be a little patient and see if he comes round. I don't think that a week of thinking time is alot. It might seem like eternity when you're sitting with your phone waiting for it to ring. But just let him be for a little. Don't jump to conclusions or make assumptions of what he is doing. Keep yourself busy! Good luck xx
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