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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am confused with this guy. I met him about 4 months ago. We have met only ONCE. We use to talk all the time and we both really like(d) eachother. He claims to be super busy and maybe he is. I cancelled a date one time and ever since then, he's kept in touch and promises I will see him soon. Then he blames his busy time on everything under the sun. I've asked him to just tell me the truth and not keep leading me on, but he says he DOES want to see me and that I will see him soon. Then, he disappears for a week or so. I've had it with him so many times and told him so, but then he will call me like nothing happened and I get so happy to hear from him, that I forget I was mad at him. I don't know what to think. My friends say this is ridiculous, to go so long without a date, that he's just keeping me in the back burner. I don't know what to think. Is is possible he IS seeing someone or many others and he is saving me for a rainy day? He knows I'm "gaga" over him... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: He is not married. I know that for a fact, although he could be a serial dater only. Right when I get fed up and actually manage to erase him from my thoughts- he makes contact.
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